Most of us have friends in seeker sensitive churches who we think love Christ, but we long for him or her to be equipped and grow in sanctification. Most of us invite them to church hoping one day they’ll join us. Often the situation unfolds like this:
- Friend agrees to attend.
- Friend attends and is bored or put off by the service.
- Afterwords he or she is nice about it, but won’t attend again.
- Sometimes we learn the service was too different than their experience and struggled to engage during the entire service, especially the expository sermon.
- We say, “If the Spirit is alive, he or she will come back.”
It’s this scenario that leads me to now say, “Please do not just bring your friend to an expository service.” As disciple makers, we must be more attentive and active in our invitations.… Continue reading
From time to time, we all need to reassess various areas of our lives. It is good to take a step back, take a breath, and re-assess a situation. We all need to do this in our own personal lives with Christ (2 Cor 13:5; Ps 19:14). And we all need to do this with our church life. We need to be very careful that the church we are actively involved in is still a faithful church; a church that Jesus sees as faithful. We need not to stay in a church simply because we grew up there nor because it is comfortable nor because we don’t want to mess with the hassle of finding a another church nor because “we have invested so much!” The church is a precious, vital part of your spiritual maturity in Christ.… Continue reading
Later this week a Christian man named Andrew will begin counseling with his pastor in a last stitched effort to overcome a sin that he has long struggled with. Andrew is 32, has been married for 8 years, is the father of 3-year-old twins, is an active member of his church, and is hooked on porn. He’s been viewing pornography since he was a teenager, and with exception of a month here and a few weeks there, has not yet found victory over his addiction. His wife has been living under the impression that Andrew’s struggle came to an end, at least as a daily struggle, several years ago. … Continue reading